As the
world honoured and celebrated father’s day yesterday, my thoughts went out to
the Oroko man as a father.
Oroko cultural display, a source of knowledge inherited from Oroko Fathers |
Maybe am
wrong or had wrong thoughts but I strongly believe that, the role of the Oroko
father, is like no other father in the world. The Oroko father has developed
the need to learn and educate himself enough so that he passes on the relay to his
children. This relay is to ensure that the children have a better future,
mindset and become responsible people.
The Oroko
father has understood that he is in a relay race. This relay race is a fight of
which he can't win solely by himself but must embrace it in a group with excess
energy, dexterity, vigour and steam.
Therefore,
for the Oroko man, being an Oroko father is not just to give birth. Rather, the
real work is to bring up Oroko offspring being worthy of the Oroko name not
only by culture and tradition but also mindset.
There are many
Oroko men who have understood that the deal is not just to reproduce children but
nurture and take care of their children in the ways of the Oroko land, Cameroon
and the world at large.
Similarly,
there are many Oroko adults and grown up men today not worthy of the name father.
This group has been brainwashed for long thus lack the mindset to be a tangible
source of important and necessary knowledge, inspiration to their children.
Happy
Father's Day to all those Oroko men who have been and would be real Oroko fathers
to their children not by simple reproduction but by the knowledge they pass on
to their children.
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